Thursday, December 3, 2009
Food in LWFC
Rosaura has no real connection to food, besides that she's not very good at cooking it and that Tita's food effects her life (i.e. the wedding). Gertrudis' life is profoundly effected by the food that Tita makes, as it makes her do things she otherwise wouldn't do. Mother Elena is eventually brought down by food, or a lack thereof, for fear of poison from Tita.
Food acts as a catalyst in this book in the case of human relations and for Tita it is a form of self-expression.
Like Water For Chocolate
Food Traditions
Food Traditions
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Like Water For Chocolate
It is also possible to say that Tita's food is so good because she is so selfless. She takes care of her mother, her sister, her sister's husband(whom she loves), and her nephew. She never asks for anything in return, but to be close to the man she loves. She does not even ask to be with him; she only wants to take care of him and her nephew. That could be why her sister and mother can not cook like her. She cooks so well because she has such strong emotions, and so much passion.
Food Traditions
My family did Thanksgiving early this year, so I went to my boyfriend's house on Thanksgiving Day. I learned about one of their special Thanksgiving, food traditions: corn pudding. I had never had it before, and can now say that corn pudding is delicious. My boyfriend's grandmother makes it every year, and according to him and his brothers, their mom tried to make it once and it turned out awful. Their grandmother's corm pudding is special to them. Even if their mom's corn pudding was good they would never admit it, because it was not made by their Mimi(what they call their grandmother. It can not be Thanksgiving for them without corn pudding just like it can not be Thanksgiving for me without corn bread stuffing.
LWFC
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Character Sketch (Like Water for Chocolate)
Food is more than just a vessel for Tita's emotions. It also becomes a foreshadow for the novel. Anytime the reader comes across Tita preparing a recipe, they automatically become aware that something vital is going to occur. After the wedding cake fiasco, the reader becomes acutely aware of the power of Tita's food and is therefore anticipating the affects of her food on others.
Food and Family
Special occasions are quite similar, but the amount of food is doubled, sometimes tripled depending on how many people are coming. My grandmother has four children, four daughter/son-in-laws, twelve grandchildren, and there are always a few extra guests or family members thrown into the mix. To accommodate everyone, we have to set up an extra dinner table in the living room. The two tables are always filled with food that my grandmother makes from scratch. She loves cooking for all of us, and prying her away from the kitchen long enough for her to each something is quite the chore.
For us, food is what brings us all together, and it is what truly stirs up some of the best conversations.
Food and Characters
Like Water For Chocolate
Characters and Foods
It can all be explained simply through Tita's emotions. When she made the wedding cake, she was grieved that she had lost Pedro. She was unwilling to throw away the rose, so she made a dish that kept the momento of love from Pedro. The ox-tail soup reminded her of her love for the kitchen while it only served bitterness to her mother for having suppressed her from her desires for many years.
In relation to other characters, foods have the effect of transferring Tita's emotions. Because Tita was grieved, full of desire, and bitter, the eaters received the same emotion. The remedial ox-tail soup is an exception, for which I have no explanation. It could have been any other food that was "foreign to [John's] house" with the same effect. Chencha made it, but she didn't transfer any emotion; the dish and its aroma only aroused in Tita memories of her past life.
Rosaura became a conduit for Tita and Pedro's lust for each other after eating the quail. She received a portion of that passion through that role, and that heat led her to a different path in life. Food not only transfers Tita's emotions, but it changes things. It changes people and their story. It touches their heart, which contributes to that change. The only exceptions are the Chabela wedding cake and the turkey mole, which produced feelings of sorrow and happiness for a short time. The only exception to that is Nacha, who took her life after remembering her lost love.
For Mama Elena, food had a negative effect on her. Tasting the bitter ox-tail soup made her even more miserable as it made her take foolish measures in order to counteract the 'poison.' She realized how no one appreciated her, and yet she tried to protect herself even more. She did not realize her true image. Perhaps it reminded her of her own bitter experiences of lost love and being forced to marry another through set customs and tradition. Maybe that was what drove her to take a dose or iperac, to do something crazy.
Pedro, Chencha and John seem to be the odd ones, as food has no powerful effect on them. Champandongo is a mystery in that the food itself had no effect. It was made with bad temper, but it did not transfer that emotion but overcame it to be an enjoyable meal. In a way, I guess it says that the situation is good although the feelings are not. So now food is immune to emotions.
Food seems to have its own personality.
Defining Food and Family
Vietnamese tradition:
For a wedding, the characterizing food would be a fried, oily pig (for the initiation ceremony which is customary in Vietnamese tradition). You read right. For New Year's, it is a round container with slots for many kinds of delectable candy like coconut, ginger, soybeans and other ground foods all sliced and sugared for eating.
Family tradition:
For graduation or coming home from school or visiting, it varies. Sometimes we go out and eat at a restaurant, but I consistently remember pho or some other Vietnamese noodle for the home menu. Maybe because it's my favorite food or because it is so served so often, that's why I remember it. But I do not really see it as much as a tradition as it is a common serving at special occasions.
Now that I think about it, there is one tradition that we have, but I don't remember how it got started: when guests come over, my mom prepares a griddle with fresh meat and seafood ready to grill on the tabletop as well as a boiling bowl, for lack of culinary knowledge, for the noodles and green vegetables. I miss the mussels, which are expensive but are so good.
The defining link between these two 'traditions' is that, except for the last example which I think is a Thailand dish, they both serve Vietnamese foods. It is not a tradition because it has been passed down, but it is a continual clinging to Vietnamese customs as my family and I continue living in America.
So, in short, what foods characterize my family? Vietnamese foods, or noodles, specifically.
What foods do we eat on special occasions? Vietnamese foods, or noodles of any variety.
Like Water for Chocolate
Due to traditional confinements, Tita is unable to express herself, and she communicates her feelings to her family with the food she cooks. There are many examples of this seen throughout the book, such as when Tita creates the ox-tail soup that is made with her love and care so her mother could get better, or the lust that accompanied the flowers that Tita used that was from Pedro.
Tita allows her family to feel what she is feeling through her recipes, which is important for Tita's self-expression of her internal flame.
Food as a Character
Monday, November 30, 2009
Like Water for Chocolate
Role of Food in LWFC
I guess what I gleaned about the food is that it's always present, and it takes precedence over everything else. Throughout the story, the food remains a constant character in the book and in Tita's life, and can always be depended on. The rest of the characters come and go -- Nacha and Mama Elena die, and so does little Roberto. Pedro, Rosaura and Gertrudis all leave and come back, but cannot be counted on.
I keep reading the recipes, and what continues to register with me is their complexity and the necessity for attention to detail in the preparation. Perhaps the food is some sort of mirror of life in general? I dunno...
So far, I don't care about the food. I just want to see what happens between Tita and Pedro.
LWFC FW
Food As a Character - LWFC
Food in LWFC
Also, the ox-tail soup that Gertruda makes revitalizes Tita and gives her back her self. This comes from Gertruda's love for Tita and her desire to help Tita get well.
I also believe Mama Elena tastes bitterness in Tita's food just before she dies, because Tita is finally no longer scared of her, and is taking care of her truly because she cares, and this causes bitterness in Mama Elena's heart, and this is what she tastes.
Blog 8: Like Water for Chocolate
The character of food
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Food in Like Water For Chocolate
Tita’s official value and only socially acceptable role is bound up in her cooking; the kitchen is her whole world and the food she makes is a direct reflection of that reality. When she is overcome with loss and bitterness but powerless to do or say anything about it, food is Tit’s means of communication. Through the meals she makes, she is able to express her sorrow, and passion. It is through food that she is able to exert any type of control on her own life. Food becomes her comfort, her emotional release, her mental escape, her love letter to Pedro, and also her foundation in the reality of life at the ranch.
With all the magical realism that is going on in this book, food is the foundation of reality for the reader as well.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
The character of food
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
My Family's Food ways
Ramadan
This feast is very important because it is a time for the community, friends, and family to spend quality time together. People connect over food; neighbors invite other neighbors to their houses, long-time friends come together, and mosques provide feasts for all the people, which can include well over 2,000.
The food is typically traditional food, but there are a few foods that are made particularly for this celebration. Every fast must be broken by eating a date and drinking a glass of water, while reciting a surah, which is a prayer.
Appetizers include fruit chaat and chaat apri, which is a delicious concoction of fruit and Pakistani spices, and dall, onions, fried dough, also mixed with spices. Pakoras, a potato deep-fried in batter is also a typical dish feasted upon during Ramadan. Also, a varied assortment of very fattening sweets accompany the meal, such as ladoo, halwa, gulaab jamuun, or jalebi, which is basically some sort of sugary fried dough, occasionally coated in syrup.
In my family, the main components of food traditions occur throughout Ramadan. When Ramamdan comes around, my family always look forward to the great big dinners we share together as a family.
Food in the Family
The most popular dish in my family, though, doesn't have a holiday spotlight. It's called Beef & Biscuit Casserole. I'm honestly not sure where it came from, but it's very delicious. It's basically just, in a 9x13 pan, this beef mixture on the bottom (seasoned ground beef, chiles, and this very tasty sauce that I don't know how to make) filling the pan probably halfway, and canned biscuit dough layed out across the top of it. A lot of us request it for our birthday dinners. That's another tradition in my family -- that my mom will make us whatever we want to eat on our birthday. Sometimes we go out or order in, but usually my mom cooks, and three of us chose Beef & Biscuit Casserole last year.
Special Occassion Food
I think it's common for the Thanksgiving and Christmas sweet potatoes to be the ones from the can, with marshmallows melted on top. For a long time, that's even what my mother made. Then along came my grandmother's recipe for Sweet Potatoe Souffle...wow, my mouth is already watering! Although I didn't really have any sort of relationship with my grandmother, I definitely have a relationship with her recipe for sweet potatoes!
I won't write the whole recipe out here (if anyone wants it, I'm happy to share it since it's what Thanksgiving is REALLY about! :D), I will mention that I use real sweet potatoes -- anything else is a waste of tummy space. And I do not use marshmallows, whatsoever. The topping is more like a struedel topping, with brown sugar, butter, chopped pecans, a little flour, and coconut. In the end, it's like a dessert before the actual dessert!
On the occasions that we go to my husband's house or my Mom's house for Thanksgiving, I am always in charge of the sweet potatoes. Everyone loves them, and the recipe has even converted non-sweet-potato-people. A couple of years ago, I got a great compliment. It wasn't that they tasted good (I already knew that!), but it was two different people that said mine tasted better than my grandmother's. Like I said, I didn't really have a connection with her, but everyone knew that she could cook like a fiend. I felt pretty amazing when I heard how good they were, and I was super-happy that my family enjoyed my cooking.
So in a couple of days, I'll be making up a 9x13 pan of those sweet potatoes, and then I'll do it again at Christmas. I'm pretty sure I'll make them twice a year, until the role is called Up Yonder. It'll be pretty thrilling when my own daughters ask me to show them how to make them, and the tradition will live on.
Foodways
Monday, November 23, 2009
Food Traditions
Ho-Hum Cuisine
We partake of many things that, at this point in time, are often considered “traditionally American” such as hamburgers, pizza, and barbeque. Restaurants are used with moderate frequency, especially now that conflicting schedules often mean that a meal would only be cooked for one and the effort is deemed unnecessary.
In this environment, it is difficult to speak on food traditions that surround holidays, but with effort I can think of a few. Although not an entire course meal, I’ve always enjoyed Christmas because of my mother’s Snicker Doodles. Christmas means a few batches will be made along with the more common chocolate chip, and sugar variety. A home-made eggnog recipe is also a big staple for the same season.
My sister’s in-laws are far more flamboyant than us when it comes to such things. They like to throw very large family parties for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the Fourth of July, but they do not serve anything you might expect. As an example, lobster is a key centerpiece for all three occasions. Their priority also inevitably falls toward ensuring a robust supply of cocktails and liquors. Eating is not emphasized at these feasts though feasts they are (due to the quantity of food present).
As with other topics, it seems that my family’s tendency for overwhelming practicality is the most obvious contrast when compared against other friends and their families. Our cuisine is very expected, largely due to my father’s appetites and what he interpreted as tradition a long time ago. Turkey is for Thanksgiving, ham is for Christmas, and the grill should be used for any patriotic holiday. Although this type of simplicity definitely, obviously lacks a touch of creativity, it is not without reverence. No one will want to be around him if there isn’t any pumpkin pie on-hand this coming weekend.
Food Traditions
Food Traditions
When my great uncle would make lichon he would go all out. He would go somewhere and kill the pig himself. After he would do this he would bring the pig home and roast it on a spit. I remember one Fourth of July I went to his backyard and there was a pig on a spit. It kind of freaked me out because I am not used to seeing a pig being roasted in front of me. Everyone started to joke me because in the Philippines they see this kind of thing all the time, so they are used to seeing a pig on a spit.
Now at pretty much every family party someone either makes lichon themselves or they order it from a Filipino market. I have gotten used to seeing a full dead pig on the table so at parties I'm not as freaked out as I once was.
food tradition
Preparing this breakfast table is very difficult and demands a lot of work. In my family, my mother does everything to make the breakfast table for the ancestors even though she does not enjoy cooking. (But she's a great cook) The cooking starts the day before holiday. She buys fresh fruits (apples, chestnuts, pears, mandarin oranges) and other ingredient. While my father cleans the house, my mother starts cooking. I and my older sister help her. First, she makes steamed beef with delicious sauce (I have a trouble explaining Korean food in English!) and prepares salad. Salad is not traditional Korean food, so technically it is wrong to put salad on that breakfast table, but she makes it because I and my sister love my mother's salad. She also starts to make Korean traditional sweet drink with fermented rice. She also cooks several kinds of fried vegetables and fish (again, hard to explain in English). Making these fried vegetables and fish really demands a lot of handwork but is essential in Korean holiday's cooking. She has to make soup and seasoned vegetable, too. There are also other food that I did not mention.
After making all these food, my mother gets exhausted and sometimes she becomes sick. Therefore, 5 years ago, my father made a great decision- he said that our family will not make the breakfast table for the ancestors any more because my mother always has to suffer!! He broke our food tradition! So now she does not have to prepare the formal breakfast table. She only cooks several special food. I think it was really good decision both for mom and myself because making holiday food demands a lot of handwork and actually I do not like holiday food much.....
Foodways
Food, glorious food.
The way it usually works is that each smaller group within the bigger family coming to Thanksgiving dinner will bring a dessert, a side, and a certain style of sweet potatoes. Every year Thanksgiving is fantastic.
Turkey, Ham, green-bean casserole, mashed potatoes, usually 2 or 3 different kinds stuffing, steamed carrots, corn-bread, and different kinds of cranberry "sauce" almost always make it to the table. Some years there are the random "guest-stars" like butternut squash soup, zucchini-bread, broccoli salad, and pearl-onion pumpkin rings, which are all delicious, but not guaranteed to be there. (Not that it really matters, since it's all great and it all gets eaten.) But whatever else may or may not get made: sweet potatoes are mandatory. Not only are they traditional, in my family they're everyone's favorite; it just isn't Thanksgiving without them. Mashed, glazed, steamed, fried, or made into a pie, the answer is "yes, please".
As far as holiday foodway traditions go, what we eat and how it's made isn't always constant, but that we get together and eat alot, never changes.
Blog 7: Foodways
Christmas is probably the most important food holiday, actually, because throughout December my mom, my sister, and I will make cookies and desserts every week. Our favorite things to make are chocolate chip cookies, Snickerdoodels, and my great-grandmother's Greek butter cookies. These food traditions come and go from year-to-year depending on things that are happening, but no matter what happens, we are definitely going to be in the kitchen to create deliciousness.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Foodways
For my extended family there are no real food traditions other than make as much food as possible. If there is less food this year than there was last year the children and parents will gripe throughout every subsequent visit until the offending holiday comes around again and the food quantity rectified. This problem usually occurs with the macaroni. And is mostly my fault as I consume more macaroni than is generally advisable.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Foodways - Anelise Lemon
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Carnival and Article
I thought that the film was interesting in that it portrayed the different cultural groups within just one city competing and claiming to be different from one another. I think that the need to identify one's self from another group is too strong to completely ignore. It was nice to see that the Carnival in Bahia was able to allow people to express themselves as being different in a (somewhat) safe environment while still letting everyone be free to party.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Celebration
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Comparing Carnaval and "Latinismo"
The film expressly said that the purpose of Carnaval was to have fun, to break from reality for five days out of the whole year while the article reported that the purpose of the Latin culture events was to bring unity in diversity. The article examined several events which had this purpose in mind and reported their level of success based on their "key scenarios."
So, on the one hand, we have a culture event based on fun while the other is founded on the basis of cultural unity and diversity, of finding a common interest and identity while maintaining each Latino country's pride and dignity, which is the tension between nationalism and panethnicity.
Also, the article reported the events in clear though general details and these events seemed to be well-organized events that celebrated this unity in diversity concept. Carnaval, on the other hand, seemed like one of our classmates confided, like "organized chaos." There was lots of dancing and noise and people in the middle of the streets and--at the end of the festival--lots of trash to clean up. Carnaval just seems like a huge event compared to the ones mentioned in the article.
Though I can say that Carnaval did represent all of Bahia's cultural heritages through their respective clubs. I cannot say that for many of the cultural events mentioned in the article, as Cinco de Mayo is a Mexican holiday and other Hispanics try to celebrate it. The Mexicans have historically been the culturally dominant ethnic group in San Francisco. But the Berkeley Fiesta and the 24th Street Fair showed that Cinco de Mayo could represent more than one Latino country in bringing in group-specific music, dance and food.
Carnaval in Bahia seems to already have this unity in diversity concept in hand, though some culture events in San Francisco have some work to do to achieve this goal of Latinismo.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Carnival and Latin American Events
Carnival Edition
Carnival
Different cultural backgrounds were united in a 5 day celebration which incorporated song and dance, although the different social classes would typically divide these groups. It was compelling to see how these distinct groups, each with their own distinct customs and traditions, were able to express themselves with freedom and acceptance.
The film was a great way to see the written words of the article, although different location and demographics. Both the article and video described the cultural unity the Hispanic population shared, despite their individual differences.
Carnaval
Carnival
Film vs. Article
Although the article and the film may describe the same thing, the film does a much more compelling job. It's far easier to understand what the carnival means to people when you see it for yourself, rather than having some author say, "This carnival is a true escape for these people."
Film vs. Article
In the article I found that there was a concentration on how the different groups of Hispanics celebrate different carnivals instead of focusing on one like the film. The article talked mainly about the origins of carnivals like Cinco de Mayo, which was the "commemoration of the 1862 battle of Puebla" (39). Reading about different carnivals is immensely different than actually witnessing the for oneself.
Both ways of viewing carnivals have a way that shows the audience it is possible to cross certain lines, i.e. class. It is also possible to, for at least a while, not differentiate between the different groups of Hispanics and they can all be one large group, i.e. San Francisco.
carnival
Article vs film
I found the article to be quite lacking when compared to the film. Reading about the event and seeing it are two completely different things, even more so in this case with the huge scale and the cultural meaning of the carnival itself. Personally seeing the carnival on film got me quite excited. 5 days of near anarchy appeared to be a lot of fun. Moreover the multitude of cultures gathering together for a single celebration where class and social power almost do not matter at all is an impressive thing. I get the feeling that perhaps America would benefit from something like this. But then again i would imagine our crime rate would be much higher. I always knew that letting go was good for you once in a while but to do it on the scale of tens of thousands of people is amazing at least from the government perspective.
You cannot capture the spirit of the carnival, which revolves around chaos and a general letting go, with words in an article. It is just something that you have to go see. (something that i hope to see eventually as well)
Monday, October 26, 2009
Carnival
One similarity I noticed was the presence of African culture within the Latin culture. The African rhythmic pattern has been infused into much of the music in Latin countries. Like in the movie the Africans that were brought to work in these countries refused to let go of their culture.
Blog 6: Carnival Bahia
CvC
Carnival
Carnival
The Carnival in the article seems much more low-key than Carnival Bahia. The one mentioned in the article (Brazilian inspired) is only 1 day long instead of five, furthermore it does not unify the neighborhood as much as Carnival Bahia simply because the Brazilian version leaves the main neighborhood. One of the major similarities, however, are the floats of differing nationalities and ethnicities. This allows the mass to unify under one broad banner while being separate facilities on their floats. Also, both Carnivals are heavy with Afro-tradition despite the fact that most people no longer identify with such traditions (either because they have no Afro-heritage personally or because that have been so long removed from it).
Friday, October 23, 2009
Carnival events in Latin America - Anelise
Thursday, October 22, 2009
grimm tales
Friday, October 16, 2009
The Tales of the Brothers Grimm
The tales seem to combine elements of reality, i.e. dangers from cutthroats or cannibals, stupidity and foolishness present in young 'uns, how dangerous persons can seem like friends, etc. with elements of enchantment and magic, i.e. witches, talking animals, elves, changelings (creepy things, really), and the oddest human characters you may ever read about. These stories clearly occupy the realm of imagination.
But as they are based on reality, they seem to convey some sort of message about it. It would not be far-fetched or unreasonable an idea to learn a lesson from these tales. For example, check and make sure who you're marrying is not a cannibal or otherwise dangerous and unsavory person. Another example would be that doing good invites the goodwill and blessing of others so that you may live a prosperous and happy, well-to-do life. Certainly, the stories seem that way.
So, the tales are purposed for disseminating social mores, giving warnings of potential dangers, putting on display the wonderfully idiotic actions of "unreal" characters, or just gathering peoples together for a good tale. It must be wonderful to tell and to hear of such fancy tales.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Grimm Tales
Grimm tales
Grimm's Tales
Grimm's Tales
I was home this past weekend, and I completed the assignment by reading the stories to my seven year old brother. Although I had read most of the stories before, my brother was hearing them for the first time. For him, he saw the tales as more than entertainment. He was filled with questions after every story; he was learning lessons and having fun at the same time.
These stories provide the reader with a message that is received in a fun and interesting way. Without the entertaining aspects of the these stories, I doubt that people would be as interested in their content.
Folk tales
purpose of tales
I was a tad bit confused by the lesson in "The Three Spinsters." While it does demonstrate that you will be rewarded by keeping your word, it gives a conflicting message about lying. The mother lied to the Queen, and therefore received nothing, yet the daughter lied to the Prince and recieved a life of leisure and luxury.
"The Fisherman and His Wife" teaches the audience to be careful with what you wish for and be happy with what you have. I also think it encourages us to stand up for what we believe in -- since the fisherman always complied with his demanding wife (against his better judgement), he never enjoyed a day's rest or peace.
"The Elves" is one of my favorite childhood stories. Although I recall it ending a little differently, the moral of the story is the same: One good turn deserves another.
Although I think "The Queen Bee" emphasizes the same moral as "The Elves," I also believe it points to the Golden Rule - Do unto others as you would have done unto you. Witling's high regard for others led the creatures to look out for him and help him gain his fortune. His mean brothers, on the other hand, ended up getting what they deserved...
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Blog 5: Grimm Tales
As for their purpose, I also believe that they do impart lessons and advice. If I were to study these fairytales more in-depth, I would learn a lot about the folk culture that they originated from
The point behind Grimms Tales
Most tales teach and instruct about greed, sloth and some of the other major sins. As was prevalent in the time of Grimm and to a lesser extent today, stories that instruct young and old about the repercussions of undesirable behaviors are an important part of society.
Fairy Tales
My impression of these stories are that they are a little harsh, even when people are good and eventually get good back. Some of the elements of the stories are violent, and scary. Like in "The Gallant Taylor" when he kills the giants and they are swimming in their own blood. I like the lessons that the stories teach, but I think I will stick to Disney for my nighttime movies. No one wants to fall asleep watching "Rapunzel" when the prince gets his eyes gouged out.
Grimms Tales
Grimm Tales
As a grown up reader, these tales are for entertaining, but I think they can give children some lessons. For example, if you do not hear mother's words carefully, you will meet bad fortune like the little red cap met the wolf in the forest. Or, if you are greedy, you'll lose everything as in "the fisherman and his wife".
Brother's Grimm
Grimm Tales
Impression and Purposes
My impression of these stories is that most are very interesting and entertaining but many are very violent, which is what I expected because of the Grimm’s reputation. I was still surprised sometimes at how gory they can get though. But, I really like most of the stories especially Hans in Luck and Hansel and Grethel because they are funny and weird. I was not really expecting many of the stories to be funny. I have never read any of the original Grimm fairy tales but I herd that they were quite gory and depressing. So it was a pleasant surprise when some were actually light hearted and funny.
I think that many of the stories are purely for entertainment. But there are many that have some sort of lesson in them also. Some of the stories I would think act as a great deterrent to bad behavior among children. After being told the story of The Goose Girl, it would be a lot harder for me to lie and deceive than if my parents just old me not to lie. These stories teach impressionable children all the bad things that happen if they do not live a smart, and moral life. At least it is what the parents want the children to think that is what happens when they are bad.
Grimm Fairytales
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
FT.E&P
Anelise - Blog #5 - Fairy Tales purpose
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Hand gesture
On the computer I will read plainly, and if i want to portray any emotion i have to result to the smiley face option on my AIM box. The problem with that, is the smiley faces fall short since the Internet lacks the connection of personal interaction. Reading is different from person to person and so, i might get offended if my friend types in all caps..thinking she's yelling at me when really she's just really happy and hyper. It's difficult to get the whole story across through an email or through chat, till the web cam. It makes a bridge that wasn't achieved before. Now i can see, talk, and hear my family that's all over the world. Even though there's miles dividing, i can still wake up real early, or stay up real late, to see, talk, and hear my brother that's in Kabul.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
A Mental Aside - Gesture On the Net
To the main question of the topic, how one might express physical gestures through the net, the most common example that comes to mind would be what I can accomplish if I use parentheses to encapsulate a small idea, or fact into a larger context. How many people equate the use of such parentheses to the similar physical action of cupping one hand around your mouth and speaking softly? (Maybe you might even turn your head away from the subject of your softer comment) I’d call that “an aside” in regular conversation and it usually comes to mind often when I think I see it being expressed through black text.
Gestures Online
I feel much the same way about all of these "emotional inserts." (*cries* *wink* *hugs*) They all fulfill a purpose at times, I suppose, but they shouldn't be our only form of expressing emotion. Personally, if something is so important that you have to labor over the correct emoticon or *action* to put in your IM message...GET OFF IM and meet in person. If you can't do that, at least have a phone conversation. That way, no one has to worry about a lost internet connection interrupting at a crucial time (think about all those dropped calls and what silence used to mean on the telephone).
Either that, or get really good at writing all your thoughts and feelings really fast, really well...
Gesture
Me: It's really sad how I'm soooo pathetic that I can't even get a date. :(
Him: Your not pathetic.
Me: Really now then why is my patheticness eating my head.
Him: Well then we should just go to the dance together.
Me: Yeah, ok.
Him: Ok I gotta to bed.
Me: K, night
Him: Night
Somehow I ended up committing to a date without realizing it. My "Yeah, ok" was supposed to have a drawn out ok, more like "ooook". But that did not translate through the internet. I was just talking out my butt, and did not realize that his invitation was sincere. However I did find out. The next day at school it had circulated throughout our friends. I ended up getting my best friend to call him on the phone the day of the dance, and tell him I was not coming. Then I ended up going anyway, he got the wrong idea, and was mad at my without telling me for weeks. Without the power of voice inflection and tone the internet can be very dangerous. People can easily get the wrong idea.
You just can not get the same level of emotion either. Just because you write *cries* into your e-mail does not mean that the other person is going to feel bad for you. It takes real tears in person for the other person to really get the idea. Which is why it is extremely weird when adults try to start relationships on the internet. You can not get a good sense of the other person from a few emoticons. :P
Gestures Online
A perfect example of this is the first time i met my brother's fiance, we were online. I did not even know what her voice sounded like and we were chatting on facebook chat. She had never really been online like that before and did not understand any of the chatting lingo that I am so familiar with. She was asking me questions and stuff and I began interpreting these questions as being invasive and rude. I had no idea what her facial expressions were so I couldn't tell if she was joking and I couldn't here the tone of her voice to identify any kind of rude attitude. Unfortunately that gave me a very bad first impression of her and I still have not met her in person so I think that until I do, I will not like her.
Lack of real human gestures online has taken away from truthful expression and while it does serve it's purpose for a quick chat, it really undermines our abilities to express ourselves the best way we know how.
Gesture in the Online World
These expression represent a whole range of emotions, from a smiling face, a surprised face, a bored face, an angry face, an embarassed face...you get the idea. Not exactly body motions, but these expressions do communicate a great deal of emotion, if shared honestly. A type of body language, if you prefer.
In the absence of smiley expressions, people use keyboard symbols like < and /, and letters as well. For example, :D, which is a combination of a colon and the capital d. It communicates the big smile perfectly. There are other forms, or expressions, like <3, or heart, etc. I realize that many people reading this will go duh, but for the uninitiated, there you go.
Also, I searched online for "im speak" and came up with a website titled "The Largest List of Text Message Shorthand (IM, SMS) and Internet Acronyms Found of the Web." Succinct enough. But it certainly is a long list. For example, there is the shorthand, W9, for "wife in room," or YBF, which means "You've Been F***ed." Since I don't im that much, I find this list fascinating and enlightening.
There must be hundreds of abbreviations and shorthands for phrases for online communication. I say this is gesture not only because it is a special form of communication developed among a particular group of people, but because, like the bird and other such body language, they are unintelligible and/or innocuous. However, the body is not used for this communication, it is the keyboard, so perhaps this is a new form of communication apart from gesture, or I'm just late to the game and it has a name but I just don't know it.
Family
But I remember one moment of religious superstition for our family. It is pretty funny now that I think about it. One late afternoon (early, evening, I'm not sure), my parents and my aunt (who was living with us at the time with her daughter) each took a bottle of oil (olive, I think), went outside the house and walked around touching the exterior of the house with the oil, all the while praying in tongues. I was invited to tag along. It was pretty bizarre. I didn't understand why they were doing it, even though I knew the reason--to ward off evil spirits from our house.
I guess I'm in one of those very religious families, then.
Gesture in the Online World
Online Gestures
Otherwise, I completely agree with Samantha, it is near impossible to communicate body language textually.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Gesture
<( '_' )>) but there is no way of knowing if the person you are chatting with or whose blog you are reading actually expressed those emotions. I frequently type "lol" and ":D" when I am not laughing at all nor smiling--it is the idea of gesture that is carried over into the blogs and chats online.
My hands, my eyebrows, my mouth, my posture, my voice intonation and so on are not carried over from face to face situations to the internet, only my intent is. As noted in lecture only 7% of our communication comes from the words we say and that is all chats and blogs are: words.
Family story.
One day, while driving to my uncle's house, Don McLean's song American Pie came on the radio. My sisters and I loved the song, so we immediately began singing whatever words we knew. Out of the blue, my dad said that he wrote the song. Although we questioned him at first, he told us that he also wrote Brown Eyed Girl, for my two brown eyed sisters, and Sweet Melissa for me.
Since I did not know what my father did, and his love for music was obvious. I believed him for a few years, until I heard the song with my aunt and she told me that my dad was in accounting and did not write any songs.